HONESTY & RELATIONSHIPS

LETTERS FROM MOTHER MARY
Letter 91

HONESTY & RELATIONSHIPS

Dear Ones,

Is it feeling like your relationships are a little stretched thin these days?  With each of you having a constant barrage of old emotions and situations coming up, relationships are suffering.  For most of you relationships have never been easy.  They take work, honesty, love, and forgiveness to flourish and grow. 

The honesty I am speaking of concerns honesty with yourself first and then honesty with the person you are in relationship with.  We are not just speaking of husband and wives, but every possible relationship you can think of.  There are hundreds of different kinds of relationships in your world.  

HONESTY SEEMS TO BE THE MOST DIFFICULT THING FOR EACH OF YOU TO SHARE WITH ONE ANOTHER.  HONESTY TAKES TRUST.  TRUST THAT THE PERSON YOU ARE BEING HONEST WITH WILL NOT REJECT YOU, ABANDON YOU, OR RIDICULE.  ALL OF THOSE THINGS ARE GOING ON INSIDE EACH OF YOU AS YOU TRY TO HAVE HONESTY IN YOUR LIVES AND RELATIONSHIPS.

Indeed all of those things are on the line when you take the risk to be honest.  You could be rejected, abandoned and ridiculed.   Let us look at the price you pay for not being honest with yourself and others.  When I am talking about being honest, I am not talking about the lie that says you are going to the store when you are going to have a beer with friends.  The honesty I am talking about is not sharing the truth of who you really are.  Not sharing the truth of how you feel and think about life, yourself, the world, God, ME Mother Mary, and hundreds of other important things in your world.

WHAT IS YOUR TRUTH, WHO ARE YOU, WHEN WILL YOU COME OUT OF TH E CLOSET, IT IS TIME TO LET THE WORLD KNOW WHO YOU REALLY ARE.   How does one do that?  You do that by starting very slowly to tell those that you are in relationships with the truth.   It is the time for honesty and courage. 

In the world of 2011 there is no more time or room for hiding all that you are away behind physical doors or energetic doors.  In the year of 2011 it is time for all the doors to come down.   IT IS TIME TO BE HONEST WITH YOURSELVES AND HONEST WITH THE BEINGS THAT YOU ARE IN RELATIONSHIP WITH.  IF YOU ARE SAYING TO YOURSELF RIGHT NOW THAT THIS LETTER HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOUR LIFE.  I WOULD ASK YOU TO READ IT AGAIN. 

THERE IS NO BEING ON YOUR MOTHER EARTH WHO HAS BEEN TOTALLY HONEST WITH THEMSELVES LET ALONE ALL THE OTHERS IN THEIR LIVES. 

BEING HONEST WILL BE A NEW WAY OF BEING FOR ALL OF YOU.  EACH OF YOU HAS BEEN TAUGHT FROM YOUR FIRST BREATH TO HIDE WHO YOU ARE.  EACH OF YOU HAS BEEN TAUGHT THAT IT IS MOST IMPORTANT TO HIDE FROM THE ONES YOU SAY YOU LOVE.  THEY HAVE THE MOST POWER TO HARM YOU.   

LOOK AROUND YOU, WHO ARE YOU THE MOST OPEN WITH, WHO ARE YOU THE MOST HONEST WITH.  ARE YOU THE MOST OPEN AND HONEST WITH YOUR FAMILIES, YOUR HUSBAND OR WIFE, OR THE PEOPLE WHO HAVE LESS IMPORTANCE IN YOUR LIVES?

This lack of honesty about who you are and what you feel and think has not worked well.  Families end up being torn apart, marriages end up in divorce.  In most cases all parties are standing and looking as if they have been hit by a car.  They have no understanding of what has happened and who this other person is.   The truth is they don’t know who the other person is, because there has been no honesty, no being real only this facade or pretend person. 

TIME AFTER TIME YOU HAVE BROKEN YOUR OWN HEART AND THE HEART OF OTHERS TRYING TO PROTECT YOURSELVES FROM BEING REJECTED, ABANDONED OR RIDICULED.  

IN THE PROTECTING OF YOURSELF FROM OTHERS YOU HAVE ENDED UP REJECTING YOURSELF, ABANDONING YOURSELF AND RIDICULING WHO YOU REALLY ARE.  It is time to stop all this pain.  It is time to take the risks to be who you are and to share with the rest of the world who you are. 

KNOWING AS I SAY THESE WORDS TO YOU, THAT I AM RIGHT HERE WAITING TO HELP YOU MAKE THESE CHANGES.  WE WILL MAKE THESE CHANGES AS GENTLY AS POSSIBLE, VERY SLOWLY, AND WITH LOVE AND CARING FOR WHO YOU TRULY ARE.

THERE ARE HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS OF US WAITING HERE TO HELP YOU.

Know you only need call my name and I will be there.

In Love, Mother Mary