Letter 92

Dear Ones, 

I have ask Barbara to start reposting letters from the 336 letters that we have.  The Letters were never meant to be looked at one time and put away.  The Letters hold ongoing truths about every situation in your lives.  So, over the next months, Barbara will be posting a different Letter every week.  If Barbara has not mentioned to you that when something is really important then I ask her to capitalize the words.  There is a lot of really important messages in Letter 92.  I hope you enjoy the changes that I have made.

In Love, Mother Mary

Letters From Mother Mary

Letter 92

Dear Ones

Again today I wish to write more about Honesty & Relationships. Remembering now that when I speak of relationships I am including the relationship you have with yourself!  After all, the relationship that you have with yourself is the most important one that you will ever have. 

You may not think that this is so, that your relationship to yourself is more important than any other.  You may think you don’t have to work at this relationship, make compromises, keep promises, be honest, nurturing, and supportive.   If that is what you are thinking, that is so untrue.  All of those statements are untrue.

This is the one relationship where you must do all of those things or “YOUR LIFE WILL NEVER WORK FOR YOU AND IT WILL NEVER BE WHAT YOU WANT”.

Those are harsh words but they are truth.  You are the one and only person who can take care of yourself in the way in which you need to be cared for.  There is no other being on your planet who can do this as well as you can.  OFTEN IT IS THOUGHT IF I JUST FIND MYSELF THE RIGHT PARTNER OR SPOUSE THEY WILL TAKE CARE OF ALL MY NEEDS.  EVERYTHING WILL BE ALL RIGHT IN MY WORLD, THEY WILL FIX IT FOR ME. 

NOW LET US TRAVEL BACK TO YESTERDAY AND THE LETTER "HONESTY & RELATIONSHIPS".   Remember now what I spoke of yesterday.  That most people find it almost impossible, to be honest and who they truly are with the people they love.  SO LET US STOP FOR A MOMENT AND THINK ABOUT THIS.   IF YOU ARE SOMEONE WHO IS THINKING THEY JUST NEED TO FIND THE RIGHT PARTNER OR SPOUSE AND THEY WILL TAKE CARE OF ALL MY NEEDS.   HOW IS THIS GOING TO WORK, YOU ARE BUSY BEING THE PRETEND FAÇADE PERSON BECAUSE YOU LOVE THIS PERSON AND ARE AFRAID OF ABANDONMENT, REJECTIONS AND RIDICULE.  AT THE SAME TIME YOU ARE THINKING THEY WILL TAKE CARE OF ALL YOUR NEEDS. 

I AM TALKING VERY LOUDLY RIGHT NOW.  YOU ARE BEING A PRETEND OR FAÇADE PERSON, AND YOUR PARTNER HAS NO IDEA WHAT YOUR NEEDS ARE.  HE OR SHE DOESN’T EVEN KNOW THE REAL YOU, LET ALONE TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHAT YOU MIGHT NEED.

Is this craziness, this is setting yourself up for more hurt and pain.  This is a continuing ongoing cycle that is running rampant on your Mother Earth.   This cycle is like living your life on a roller coaster.  IT IS TIME TO TURN OFF THE ROLLER COASTER AND JUST STOP. 

IT IS TIME TO STOP AND FIND OUT WHO YOU TRULY ARE.  IT IS TIME TO STOP BEING THE PRETEND OR FAÇADE PERSON.   If you are in the cycle long enough pretty soon you start to believe that the pretend or façade person is who you really are.   CAN YOU SEE THIS IS NOT THE TRUTH? 

THIS IS AN ONGOING CYCLE OF HURT, PAIN, AND DISAPPOINTMENT.  THIS IS NOT SOMETHING THAT THE OTHER PERSON IS DOING TO YOU, BUT SOMETHING THAT YOU ARE DOING TO YOURSELVES. 

IT TAKES GREAT COURAGE TO TURN OFF THE ROLLER COASTER AND CHOOSE TO BECOME HONEST IN THE RELATIONSHIP WITH YOURSELF.  IT TAKES GREAT COURAGE TO BECOME HONEST WITH THE ONES YOU LOVE.  YOU MAY FIND THAT SOME OF THE THINGS YOU ARE AFRAID OF WILL HAPPEN.   BUT AT THE SAME TIME YOU WILL FIND HUGE REWARDS.  ENORMOUS PERSONAL REWARDS FOR BEING HONEST AND GETTING TO LIVE A LIFE BEING WHO YOU TRULY ARE. 

YOU WILL FIND SUCH JOY AND WONDER IN THE DISCOVERY OF WHO YOU ARE AND BEING ABLE TO LIVE THE LIFE YOU NEED AND WANT.

OF COURSE, REMEMBERING ALWAYS THAT WE ARE RIGHT HERE WAITING WITH OPEN ARMS AND HEARTS TO CARE, NURTURE AND LOVE YOU.  WE ARE WAITING TO HELP YOU WITH IT ALL. 

Know that you only need call my name and I will be there.

In love, Mother Mary