HONESTY & RELATIONSHIPS

LETTERS FROM MOTHER MARY
Letter 91

HONESTY & RELATIONSHIPS

Dear Ones,

Is it feeling like your relationships are a little stretched thin these days?  With each of you having a constant barrage of old emotions and situations coming up, relationships are suffering.  For most of you relationships have never been easy.  They take work, honesty, love, and forgiveness to flourish and grow. 

The honesty I am speaking of concerns honesty with yourself first and then honesty with the person you are in relationship with.  We are not just speaking of husband and wives, but every possible relationship you can think of.  There are hundreds of different kinds of relationships in your world.  

HONESTY SEEMS TO BE THE MOST DIFFICULT THING FOR EACH OF YOU TO SHARE WITH ONE ANOTHER.  HONESTY TAKES TRUST.  TRUST THAT THE PERSON YOU ARE BEING HONEST WITH WILL NOT REJECT YOU, ABANDON YOU, OR RIDICULE.  ALL OF THOSE THINGS ARE GOING ON INSIDE EACH OF YOU AS YOU TRY TO HAVE HONESTY IN YOUR LIVES AND RELATIONSHIPS.

Indeed all of those things are on the line when you take the risk to be honest.  You could be rejected, abandoned and ridiculed.   Let us look at the price you pay for not being honest with yourself and others.  When I am talking about being honest, I am not talking about the lie that says you are going to the store when you are going to have a beer with friends.  The honesty I am talking about is not sharing the truth of who you really are.  Not sharing the truth of how you feel and think about life, yourself, the world, God, ME Mother Mary, and hundreds of other important things in your world.

WHAT IS YOUR TRUTH, WHO ARE YOU, WHEN WILL YOU COME OUT OF TH E CLOSET, IT IS TIME TO LET THE WORLD KNOW WHO YOU REALLY ARE.   How does one do that?  You do that by starting very slowly to tell those that you are in relationships with the truth.   It is the time for honesty and courage. 

In the world of 2011 there is no more time or room for hiding all that you are away behind physical doors or energetic doors.  In the year of 2011 it is time for all the doors to come down.   IT IS TIME TO BE HONEST WITH YOURSELVES AND HONEST WITH THE BEINGS THAT YOU ARE IN RELATIONSHIP WITH.  IF YOU ARE SAYING TO YOURSELF RIGHT NOW THAT THIS LETTER HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOUR LIFE.  I WOULD ASK YOU TO READ IT AGAIN. 

THERE IS NO BEING ON YOUR MOTHER EARTH WHO HAS BEEN TOTALLY HONEST WITH THEMSELVES LET ALONE ALL THE OTHERS IN THEIR LIVES. 

BEING HONEST WILL BE A NEW WAY OF BEING FOR ALL OF YOU.  EACH OF YOU HAS BEEN TAUGHT FROM YOUR FIRST BREATH TO HIDE WHO YOU ARE.  EACH OF YOU HAS BEEN TAUGHT THAT IT IS MOST IMPORTANT TO HIDE FROM THE ONES YOU SAY YOU LOVE.  THEY HAVE THE MOST POWER TO HARM YOU.   

LOOK AROUND YOU, WHO ARE YOU THE MOST OPEN WITH, WHO ARE YOU THE MOST HONEST WITH.  ARE YOU THE MOST OPEN AND HONEST WITH YOUR FAMILIES, YOUR HUSBAND OR WIFE, OR THE PEOPLE WHO HAVE LESS IMPORTANCE IN YOUR LIVES?

This lack of honesty about who you are and what you feel and think has not worked well.  Families end up being torn apart, marriages end up in divorce.  In most cases all parties are standing and looking as if they have been hit by a car.  They have no understanding of what has happened and who this other person is.   The truth is they don’t know who the other person is, because there has been no honesty, no being real only this facade or pretend person. 

TIME AFTER TIME YOU HAVE BROKEN YOUR OWN HEART AND THE HEART OF OTHERS TRYING TO PROTECT YOURSELVES FROM BEING REJECTED, ABANDONED OR RIDICULED.  

IN THE PROTECTING OF YOURSELF FROM OTHERS YOU HAVE ENDED UP REJECTING YOURSELF, ABANDONING YOURSELF AND RIDICULING WHO YOU REALLY ARE.  It is time to stop all this pain.  It is time to take the risks to be who you are and to share with the rest of the world who you are. 

KNOWING AS I SAY THESE WORDS TO YOU, THAT I AM RIGHT HERE WAITING TO HELP YOU MAKE THESE CHANGES.  WE WILL MAKE THESE CHANGES AS GENTLY AS POSSIBLE, VERY SLOWLY, AND WITH LOVE AND CARING FOR WHO YOU TRULY ARE.

THERE ARE HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS OF US WAITING HERE TO HELP YOU.

Know you only need call my name and I will be there.

In Love, Mother Mary

Letters 89 - 90

LETTERS FROM MOTHER MARY

Letter 89

Dear Ones,

In the last few letters we have talked about Joy, Love, Laughter, Sweetness, and Light.  We have talked of giving yourself a break, today let us talk about a different kind of break.  Some of you are already living in this way and many of you are talking about it.  What I am speaking of is learning to follow your heart and letting go of the old way of being. 

This is a big shift for most of you.  Going from what your common sense mind says to what your heart is telling you.  This speaks to saying YES to what the universe and the ones here with me are offering you.  Remembering that what we offer you may not make sense at the moment, but understanding will be sure to follow.  That could mean that understanding will follow but not for about 2 or 3 months.  So I am saying that common sense understanding is not the most important thing in your world right now.

There are opportunities being presented to each of you at this time.  Opportunities that will increase your ability to share your gifts.  Opportunities to open your heart wider and wider, allowing the real you to come into the light.  Each of you is learning who and what you are.  You each are becoming aware of what your gifts are that you have come to share with the world.  These opportunities that are being presented to you are portals or windows into your growing and blooming into the light.

What your Mother Earth needs right now to continue to grow and flourish is light.  As each of you brings your gifts out into the open your light increases and shines brighter and brighter.  THESE OPPORTUNITIES THAT ARE BEING PRESENTED TO YOU ARE GIFTS TWICE OVER.  AS YOU ACCEPT OUR GIFTS AND BEGIN TO OPEN UP YOU WILL BE INCREASING YOUR PERSONAL LIGHT IN THE WORLD.  AS YOU INCREASE YOUR LIGHT YOU WILL ALSO BE FEEDING AND NURTURING YOUR MOTHER EARTH WITH MORE LIGHT.

PERHAPS THESE GIFTS THAT WE ARE SENDING YOU ARE THREE TIMES OVER GIFTS.  YOU ARE GIFTED WITH MORE LIGHT, MOTHER EARTH IS GIFTED WITH MORE LIGHT FROM YOU.  WE HERE ON THIS SIDE ARE BLESSED AND GRATEFUL THAT OUR GIFTS HAVE BEEN ACCEPTED AND APPRECIATED.

WE IN TURN, ALL OF US ARE PRACTICING WHAT YOUR WORLD WAS MEANT TO BE ABOUT.  THESE GIFTS THAT WE ARE SHARING WITH YOU AND THAT YOU ARE APPRECIATING AND ACCEPTING ARE ALL ABOUT LOVE.  ALL OF THIS IS PART OF THE GIVING AND RECEIVING OF LOVE.   

REMEMBERING NOW THAT THE GIVING AND RECEIVING OF LOVE IS WHAT YOUR MOTHER EARTH IS ABOUT AND HER PURPOSE FOR EXISTING.  YOUR PURPOSE FOR BEING HERE ON YOUR MOTHER EARTH IS ABOUT LEARNING TO GIVE AND RECEIVE LOVE.   WE HERE ARE APPLAUDING AND LAUGHING IN JOY AND BLESSINGS THAT PURPOSES ARE BEING FULFILLED.  LOVE IS RUNNING RAMPANT. 

WE HERE ARE FEELING BLESSED AND HAPPY.  WE ARE HOPING THAT YOU ALSO ARE FEELING BLESSED AND HAPPY.  REMEMBERING THAT WE ARE ALWAYS HERE FOR WHATEVER YOU MAY NEED.  KNOW THAT YOU ARE GREATLY LOVED AND APPRECIATED.

Know you only need call my name and I will be there.

In Love, Mother Mary

  

LETTERS FROM MOTHER MARY

Letter 90

Dear Ones,

Each one of you is so precious and unique.  Each of your gifts will come in different ways and at different times.  You each will present yourself and your gifts to the world differently from anyone else. 

What makes your world so wonderful is that you are all so different.  It is a crime against each of you that it has been thought that everyone should be like everyone else.  Your young people strife to look and be like all their friends.   Never knowing or learning that it is so wonderful to be different than everyone else. 

Some of you are well into your adult lives before you discover that it is not only ok to be different, but that it is absolutely wonderful to be different.   Many, many of you never discover that it is ok to be just who you are and that it is ok to be different. There is huge pain, stress, frustration, and desperation caused from trying and working to be the same as everyone else.  It is not something that you can ever accomplish, because the truth is there is no one like you or no one like the person you are trying to be. 

This battle or war that goes on inside of you trying to make yourselves into being normal or like everyone else is never ending. There will be no winners in this battle or war only losers.  In the working to be as everyone else it causes you to think less and less of your worth and value to the world and yourself.  It is a constant re-enforcing voice in your head saying you are not ok as you are.  

I AM SPEAKING VERY LOUDLY RIGHT NOW, MAYBE I AM EVEN SCREAMING BECAUSE THIS IS SO IMPORTANT.  YOU ARE WONDERFUL JUST AS YOU ARE, YOU WERE NEVER MEANT TO BE LIKE ANYONE ELSE.  YOU WERE MEANT TO BE DIFFERENT THAN ANYONE ELSE ON YOUR EARTH.  YOU ARE PRECIOUS AND ONE OF A KIND.  YOU ARE TO BE CHERISHED, ADORED AND HONORED BECAUSE YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE. 

BECAUSE YOU ARE DIFFERENT AND ONE OF A KIND YOU BRING YOUR OWN SPECIAL GIFTS TO THE WORLD.  YOU EACH ARE A SEPARATE AND UNIQUE FORM OF ENERGY THAT IS NEEDED TO MAKE UP THE WHOLE OF YOUR PLANET.  Your world is made of hundreds of thousand of separate and unique energy forms.  Each form having its own place and space to fill.  If you are trying to change yourself and your energy form, how will you fit into your own special place and space?  If you change your energy form and make it different you will never find your place or how you fit into world.

SO I AM SAYING TO YOU AND EVEN BEGGING YOU TO PLEASE PAY ATTENTION AND HEAR MY WORDS.  YOU EACH ARE WONDERFUL AND UNIQUE AND WERE NEVER MEANT TO BE LIKE ANYONE ELSE.  WE HERE ARE HONORING YOU FOR YOUR DIFFERENCES AND THE COURAGE IT TAKES TO BE WHO YOU ARE.  IT TAKES GREAT COURAGE AND STRENGTH TO STEP OUT OF OLD THOUGHT PATTERNS AND HONOR YOURSELVES AND US BY BEING WHO YOU ARE MEANT TO BE.   DIFFERENT, UNIQUE AND MAYBE EVEN STRANGE SOME TIMES, BUT THAT IS WONDERFUL BEYOND WORDS. 

KNOW THAT I AM LOVING YOU AND EVERYONE HERE IS LOVING YOU FOR YOUR DIFFERENCES.  WE ARE STANDING RIGHT HERE TO HELP YOU TAKE THOSE STEPS TO ALLOW YOURSELVES TO BE DIFFERENT AND UNIQUE.  WHAT COULD BE MORE WONDERFUL THAN BEING WHO YOU ARE?

Know that you only need call my name and I will be there.

In Love, Mother Mary

Letters 87 - 88

LETTERS FROM MOTHER MARY

Letter 87

Dear Ones,

Today let us talk about what makes you smile.  It seems as if that has not been happening often enough lately.  I know that the energy right now is intense and heavy.  The letting go and releasing of old energy can be consuming and overwhelming. 

It is essential to your well being that you also allow yourselves to take a break.  What do I mean by a break.  When was the last time you smiled because something made you feel happy or joyful?  When was the last time you laughed?  Laughter is a wonderful way to release stress and tension.  Laugher feels good, it allows your whole being to be involved.   Laughter involves your heart, body, mind, and soul. 

Balance is the key word for this year of 2011.  Just as you are working very hard with all the intense energy on the planet, it is also needed that you enjoy laughter and fun.  Laughter and fun are reactions and actions of the heart centered being.  Learning and being in a heart-centered world is about experience joy, love, and laughter at all the time.

Most beings on your planet know more about anger, greed, frustration, and hate then they know about joy, love, and laughter.  Your world for many centuries has been focused on the negative emotions found in humans.  The softer emotions of joy, love, and laughter have been lost and hidden away as weak and un-necessary.   That is not a truth.

The truth of your world, your Mother Earth, and your very beings is that you must have joy, love, and laughter.  You and your Mother Earth need joy, love, and laughter to grow and survive.  When you look around your Mother Earth and see all the things that are not working know that it is because there is a lack of joy, love, and laughter.  

As you work and study at becoming a heart-centered human you will find that joy, love, and laughter automatically starts coming into your life.  As you study and grow, so joy, love and laughter will grow and become so important to your life.  You will find that you cannot survive without out it.  Love, Joy, and Laughter causes your heart to open and grown larger and larger.  THE OPENING OF YOUR HEART AND ITS GROWING LARGER AND LARGER IS WHAT YOU ARE HERE TO LEARN.  IT HAS TAKEN MANY CENTURIES FOR YOU TO ARRIVE AS THIS POINT IN TIME.  WE HERE ARE SO GRATEFUL THAT YOU HAVE COME TO THIS TIME IN YOUR GROWTH.  WE HAVE BEEN WAITING AND WAITING. 

AS ALWAYS WE ARE HERE READY TO HELP YOU AND BE WITH YOU.  REMEMBER WE HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR YOU AND WE ARE STANDING HERE WITH OPEN ARMS AND HEARTS.  PLEASE BLESS US WITH YOUR REQUESTS FOR HELP AND CARING. 

Know that you only need call my name and I will be there.

In Love, Mother Mary,

LETTERS FROM MOTHER MARY

Letter 88

Dear Ones,

My wish for you today is that you will allow yourselves to have a day filled with peace, light, and love.  I AM SPEAKING OF ONE OF THOSE DAYS WHERE ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING IS RIGHT IN YOUR WORLD.  Just for today let go of the worries and in a small way recognizing that your worrying will never change the outcome of a situation.

Today your eyes will only see a bright blue sky, you will feel warmth from the Sun, and totally encircled by the love of your friends and families.  All resentments and anger have released from your body.  Feelings of lack and unworthiness have vanished from your being.  Sorrows and regrets have returned to the past where they belong. 

TODAY IS ABOUT RIGHT NOW AND THIS ONE MOMENT IN TIME.  IN THIS TIME THE WORLD BELONGS TO YOU.  YOU ARE THE BRIGHTEST STAR IN THE SKY.  JUST FOR THIS ONE-DAY WILL YOU ALLOW YOURSELVES TO BE RIGHT HERE, RIGHT NOW.

Some of you will be able to go instantly to this place I am speaking about.  Some of you will need help getting to this place.  SO FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO NEED HELP REACHING THIS PLACE OF RIGHT NOW.  CLOSE YOUR EYES, TAKE A DEEP BREATH AND COME WITH ME.  PLACE YOUR HAND ON YOUR HEART AND CALL MY NAME. 

JUST KEEP GENTLY BREATHING, TAKE MY HAND AND WALK WITH ME.  TAKE ME TO YOUR FAVORITE PLACE IN THE WHOLE OF THE WORLD.  WE CAN GO ANYWHERE YOU WANT.   We are in your favorite place and we are staying right here in this moment, not in the past and not in the future.  This moment right here and right now is all there is.  Allow the energy of this place to absorb into your heart, mind, and body.  Feel the glory of it.  Your body is totally empty of everything but the joy of being right here, right now, and sharing it with me.  Know that I am totally right here with you.  My heart is open to just you at this moment in time.  You are my total focus.  I am surrounding and filling you with love.  We are one.  You are me and I am you.  We are the brightest stars in the sky. 

Allow your heart, mind, and body to absorb all the love and joy that is here right now for you.  Remembering that any time and any day you can come right back to this time and this space.  You can read the letter again or remember in your mind how to return here.  Know that it is possible to bring all that you find here in this place back into your world today.  STEP ONE IS LEARNING TO BE IN THIS PLACE, RIGHT HERE, AND RIGHT NOW.  KEEPING YOUR MIND AND BODY FOCUSED ON NOW.   LETTING GO OF ALL THOUGHTS ABOUT THE PAST AND THE FUTURE.   EVERYTHING IN YOUR WORLD IS ABOUT RIGHT NOW. BEING IN THE PRESENT WILL ALLOW YOU TO LIVE IN A HEART CENTERED WORLD. 

REMEMBERING THAT THIS IS YOUR PURPOSE TO BE AND LIVE IN A HEART CENTERED WORLD.  GIVING AND RECEIVING OF LOVE WITHOUT STRINGS OR CONDITIONS.

Know that I am right here with you and there are thousands of others here with me.  We are wanting to help you find your way to living in the NOW.  Please call on us and allow us to help you find this path. 

Know you only need call my name and I will be there.

In Love, Mother Mary

Letters 85 - 86

LETTERS FROM MOTHER MARY

Letter 85

Dear Ones,

Today let us talk about bringing sweetness and light back into your lives.  What do I mean by sweetness and light?  I am talking about the things that stop you and instantly make you smile, laugh, or you can just feel your heart growing larger.  I am talking about the wonders and miracles that happen every day in your world.

When was the last time you stopped to watch a baby smile?  Did you watch a sunset last night?  Where are the rainbows?  Have you noticed the flowers are starting to come up?  I am talking about all the little miracles that happen every single day that fill your heart up with joy.

It seems that for many, their lives are moving way to fast to be able to slow down and taste the miracles of life.  There is an old saying in your world and it is fitting for now.  “STOP AND TAKE TIME TO SMELL THE ROSES”.   In this case the roses are the sweetness and lightness of your life. 

Each and every being on your Mother Earth requires sweetness and light in their lives.  In the intenseness of your world during this year it is imperative for each of you to see, hear, and taste the miracles.  As you move forward into the 5D world the journey has been long and challenging.  The miracles that are happening every day are there for you.  The miracles are meant to lighten the journey and to lift your hearts up to the next level. 

Yes, I do know it is winter in much of your world, so there may not be sunsets or rainbows.  Take the time to think of those things that stop you and lift your heart to new levels.  I SAY TO YOU RIGHT NOW TO STOP AND TAKE A DEEP BREATH.  BE RIGHT HERE WITH ME, CLOSE YOUR EYES AND TAKE SEVERAL DEEP BREATHS.  PUT YOUR HAND ON YOUR HEART AND FOCUS YOUR MIND ON YOUR HEART CENTER.  LET ALL THE OTHER THINGS RUNNING THROUGH YOUR MIND STOP AND TAKE A BREAK RIGHT NOW.  Just be right here with me, with your mind focused on your heart.   TELL ME WHAT MAKES YOUR HEART SMILE.  YOU DO NOT NEED TO SAY IT OUT LOUD, JUST THINK IT IN YOUR MIND.   WHAT MAKES YOUR HEART SMILE?  ALLOW ALL THE DIFFERENT THINGS TO COME UP AND BE PUT INTO YOUR MEMORY BANKS. 

JUST STAY RIGHT THERE WITH YOUR HAND ON YOUR HEART AND YOUR MIND FOCUSED ON YOUR HEART.  WHAT IS YOUR HEART SAYING TO YOU?  WHAT DOES IT NEED?  ONCE AGAIN ALLOW ALL THAT INFORMATION TO COME UP BE STORED IN YOUR MEMORY BANKS. 

Now the challenge of all this is, can you allow yourselves to slow down and do what it is that your heart needs to make it smile?  For most of you there are many small things you could do several times a day and you would be using no more that 15 minutes of your time.  15 minutes is a small amount of time to pay for such a huge reward. 

THERE IS NO PRICE TO HIGH TO PAY FOR HAVING THE SWEETNESS AND LIGHTNESS OF LIFE IN YOUR WORLD.  ALL THESE WONDERFUL MIRACLES THAT HAPPEN IN YOUR WORLD EVERY DAY, ALMOST EVERY SECOND HAVE BEEN FORGOTTEN.  Your lives have been moving to fast for too long and there are many things that have been lost along the way.

So today I am asking you to slow down and give yourself 15 minutes to lift up your heart and add sweetness into your lives.  WE ARE RIGHT HERE WITH YOU EVERY STEP OF THE WAY.  WE ARE URGING YOU TO SLOW DOWN AND SMELL THE ROSES.  TO SLOW DOWN AND SEE, HEAR, AND TASTE THE MIRACLES AROUND YOU.   WE ARE LOVING YOU NOW AND ALWAYS.

Know you only need call my name and I will be there.

In Love, Mother Mary

LETTERS FROM MOTHER MARY

Letter 86

Dear Ones,

Some of what I say to day may be difficult to hear.  There are some of you who will say no that is not right we have always done life, relationships, and raising our children in this way.  Yes, what you say is true you have always done it this way and now it is time to do it another way.   Your way of the past has not worked.  Look at your families, friends, and your world, what you have been doing is not working.

2011 is the year of change, growth, and enlightenment.   Your world is working towards becoming heart centered.  Where your lives will be lived directly from your heart.  Each one of you will be living from your own heart-centered space.  Your responsibility first and foremost will be caring for your heart, your life, and how you choose to live that life.  What are your passions, dreams, hopes and goals? 

This new world we are stepping into will be occupied by beings that live from their heart center.  They will be fulfilling their individual purposes here on Mother Earth.  They will be living their passion and honoring themselves.  You will also be loving and honoring others but never at the expense of your purpose or lives.  Honoring someone else, but not yourself has never worked and there is no place in the new world for those kinds of actions. 

When each being is caring, loving, and honoring self, you will automatically offer and provide the same for others.   In saying you will provide the same for others, it is not saying you will put their passion or dreams ahead of yours.  That would be going right back to the old way of being and thinking.   I am aware this is a most difficult concept for husbands and wives, parents and children, brothers and sisters.   It is important to understand that when you put others before yourself, you are not being as loving and caring as you think.  That kind of loving and caring turns into resentment, anger, and in extreme cases hate.  Remembering now that the energy from those emotions is what is going out to the ones that you say you are loving and caring for.  Do you see why it is time for a change, this old way is not working nor has it ever worked.  

For most of you this will be a huge transformation and change.  This change also calls for the letting go of all the old feelings caused by the way you have interpreted what loving and caring means.  This change will allow you to love and care for yourselves and others in a heart centered way.  The heart centered way allows you each to love and care for yourself first and then to reach out and care for others.  There will be no frustrating and intense emotions caused from this form of loving and caring.   No one will become stuck and unable to live his or her lives to the fullest. 

CAN YOU SEE THAT THIS NEW WAY OF LIVING WILL PROVIDE YOU AND YOUR WORLD WITH A PEACE AND HARMONY NOT KNOWN ON EARTH BEFORE.  These are huge changes I am talking about and it is important for each of you to know that we are truly here waiting to help you.  We are aware of the turmoil and confusion that will occur in your lives and your families as you make these changes.  REMEMBER THAT WE ARE ALWAYS HERE OFFERING YOU OUR LOVE AND SUPPORT.  There are many ways to make these changes and we have many options to share with you.  Just as you are each individuals so it follows that how you make your changes will be in your own unique way.  

REMEMBER THAT WE ARE HERE AND THERE ARE HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS OF US WAITING TO HELP YOU.

Know you only need call my name and I will be there.

In Love, Mother Mary