Letter 259

CONVERSATIONS WITH MOTHER MARY

Mother Mary is inviting you to come and have a personal conversation with her.  Barbara and Mother Mary will trade places during your reading so that you will be able to talk directly to Mother Mary.  Barbara will simply move into a special chamber that Mother Mary has prepared for her during this time and then Mother Mary will move into Barbara’s body to have that personal one on one conversation with you.  These conversations can be long distance over the phone or in person.  The fee is $55.00 and there is a discount available for first time clients.  Please contact Barbara for an appointment at beachhouse11111@gmail.com  or 503-717- 4302.

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LETTERS FROM MOTHER MARY
Letter 259

Dear Ones, 

Lately, I have been talking about Self-Love and Self-Care.  Part of loving and caring for you is Trusting yourselves.   I am talking about that small voice inside of you.   Most of you are thinking that the voice comes from your brain, but in truth, it comes from your heart, which is where your intuition and your spiritual knowing comes from.

Every being on earth has that small voice that speaks to them.  Many of you choose to ignore it or even pretend that you don’t have a voice.   But, that is an untruth; everyone has that small voice inside their hearts.  Learning to trust yourselves is a big step in loving and caring for yourselves.   Many of you trust yourselves when it comes to something logical and analytical.  That kind of trust is the easy one to acquire.  I am speaking of trusting yourselves when you have nothing to back you up.  An example of what I am speaking of is “your on your way home from work; there are two ways to go home and your small voice is telling you to go a certain way, but it is longer and takes a few more minutes.  You decide to listen and go that way, later you hear there was a bad accident on the other road.”   Now, aren't you glad you listened to that small inner voice telling you to go the other way? 

Now do you understand what I am talking about when I say trusting yourselves by trust that small inner voice?  Some people call that voice their intuition, but today I am calling it your spiritual knowing or your connection to source and my world.  REMEMBER WE ARE ALWAYS HERE GUIDING YOU AND PROTECTING YOU.  

There are many of you who listen sometimes and many who never listen to that spiritual knowing at all.  Today I am asking you to start listening to that knowing and to the messages that we are sending you daily. 

Many of the decisions that you make daily about your lives and your business world that you struggle over could be answered easily by listening to that inner voice and trusting yourselves.  There would be no need to struggle or worry about what you decide if you are listening to your inner voice.  Your relationships would be smoother and more loving with the help of your inner voice.  The confusion and chaos of your mind will quiet and be gone as you start to listen to your inner voice and not the confusion and chaos.  

This is all about trusting yourselves and trusting us; we are your inner voice.  Your inner voice is your connection to my world.  My world being your helpers, guardian angels, me Mother Mary and all the other millions of beings who live in my world.  Trusting the inner voice is about accepting and appreciating your help and guidance.  It is about letting go of the belief that your logical mind has the answers to everything.  Your logical mind only has a very small limited amount of knowledge about what goes on in the world.  Your inner voice has access to a huge incredible amount of knowledge, which it can provide to you if you choose to listen.   REMEMBER THAT WE ARE RIGHT HERE WAITING TO HELP YOU.  If you feel uncertain how to start listening to your inner voice, you only need ask for help and we will be there to help you.  I am holding you most tenderly in my heart and loving you so greatly.  I love you, I love you and I love you.

Know you only need call my name and I will be there.

In Love, Mother Mary 

If you are interested in purchasing a copy of Mother Mary's

book please go to the website at 

www.thelivinglettersofmothermary.com 

Letter 258

CONVERSATIONS WITH MOTHER MARY

Mother Mary is inviting you to come and have a personal conversation with her.  Barbara and Mother Mary will trade places during your reading so that you will be able to talk directly to Mother Mary.  Barbara will simply move into a special chamber that Mother Mary has prepared for her during this time and then Mother Mary will move into Barbara’s body to have that personal one on one conversation with you.  These conversations can be long distance over the phone or in person.  The fee is $55.00 and there is a discount available for first time clients.  Please contact Barbara for an appointment at beachhouse11111@gmail.com  or 503-717- 4302

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LETTERS FROM MOTHER MARY
Letter 258

Dear Ones, 

It has been a very short time since my last letter to each of you.  I want each of you to know that I see how hard you are trying to care for yourselves.  Also, I see what a great relief it was for many of you when you read my letter telling you that you need to care for yourselves first.

There are so many of you who have cared for others first for your whole lives and have never allowed yourselves to be cared for.  My words and encouragement were so welcome and comforting to those of you who have been living in the old ways. 

Know that I am standing here in my world applauding each of you for stepping out and reaching out to try life in a different way.  Let there be no guilt in your minds and hearts over taking care of yourselves first.  Be aware that the beings in your personal lives may find the changes in you difficult to understand.  Perhaps, there will be some who take it as a personal affront to them that you are caring for yourselves first and then reaching out to care for them.  There may be some who feel that you do not love them as much as you use to or they may feel neglected by you.

It is so important that you recognize that they are feeling that way, but it is not necessary for you to go back to your old ways to make them happy.  IT IS BEYOND IMPORTANT THAT YOU CONTINUE WITH YOURSELF-CARE.  REMEMBERING NOW THAT YOU ARE NOT DOING THE SELF-CARE AS A PUNISHMENT OR AS A DISREGARD FOR SOMEONE ELSE.  YOU ARE SIMPLY DOING THE SELF-CARE BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT YOU NEED TO DO TO LOVE AND CARE FOR YOURSELVES. 

There is one more important step in this changing of the old patterns of caring for others first.  It is now most important to talk with the others in your personal lives and explain what you are doing and why you are doing it.  It is time to let them know that by taking care of yourself first what you will have to give them will be so much more.  There will no longer be feelings of tiredness, resentment and anger attached to the care that you are giving to them.  YES, ALL OF THOSE FEELINGS ARE ATTACHED TO YOUR GIVING WHEN YOU DO NOT CARE FOR YOURSELF FIRST.  I can see your faces right now and you are shocked and in disbelief that this might be true. 

So, I will say to you stop for a moment and think about how you felt when you were caring for others all the time and never finding time for yourselves.  This is a step in taking your blinders off and really looking inside yourselves and seeing what has been going on for you as you cared for others day after day.   I will say again now, it is not the time for guilt over this either.  It is simply the way it worked for you in the past and now you are changing that.  I am so proud of each of you.  Changing one’s life, one’s old habits or patterns is never easy.  The fact that you are doing the self-care now or maybe just thinking about doing it is wonderful beyond words.  REMEMBER THAT WE ARE RIGHT HERE AND WE WILL HELP IN ANY WAY WE CAN.  WE ARE LOVING YOU SO GREATLY AND HOLDING YOU IN OUR HEARTS WITH GREAT JOY AND LOVE.  I LOVE YOU, I LOVE YOU AND I LOVE YOU.

Know you only need call my name and I will be there.

In Love, Mother Mary

If you are interested in purchasing a copy of Mother Mary's

book please go to the website at 

www.thelivinglettersofmothermary.com 

Letter 257

CONVERSATIONS WITH MOTHER MARY

Mother Mary is inviting you to come and have a personal conversation with her.  Barbara and Mother Mary will trade places during your reading so that you will be able to talk directly to Mother Mary.  Barbara will simply move into a special chamber that Mother Mary has prepared for her during this time and then Mother Mary will move into Barbara’s body to have that personal one on one conversation with you.  These conversations can be long distance over the phone or in person.  The fee is $55.00 and there is a discount available for first time clients.  Please contact Barbara for an appointment at beachhouse11111@gmail.com  or 503-717- 4302.
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LETTERS FROM MOTHER MARY

Letter 257

Good Morning Dear Ones,

Let us once again talk of Self-care.  I cannot stress enough how important yourself-care is.  During these times of intense energies, solar flares and the onslaught that each of you are experiencing from outside sources, it is imperative that you love and nurture yourselves.  Self-care is all about loving, nurturing and supporting yourself.  

Each of you have loved ones in your lives that you love, nurture and support and they are an important part of your life.  But, the old patterns and training of times past tell you and have told you it is necessary and godly to care for them first.  THAT IS AN UNTRUTH.  This is one of the many untruths you have been told over and over.  IT IS TIME OR PAST TIME TO ERASE THOSE UNTRUTHS FROM MINDS, HEARTS AND BODIES.  This untruth and other untruths are harmful and in some cases abusive to EACH OF YOU.  

Do you understand what I am saying?  Always caring for others first is damaging to who you are.  Only by caring for yourselves first will you ever be able to turn and offer true help to another.  By true help, I AM SPEAKING OF HELP THAT TRULY COMES FROM YOUR HEART.  In other words, your help is given with an open heart.  Openhearted help is beyond wonderful and feels good to the person giving and to the person receiving.  The person receiving will feel so loved and cared for.  Their hearts will be warmed and the soul will feel full and cherished.  You, the giver will feel energized and heart connected to the receiver.  Your giving in this way will take nothing from you but in truth will give back to you.  The gratitude and appreciation coming to you from the receiver will amaze you. 

There are perhaps very few beings on Mother Earth who have experienced giving or receiving in this manner.  The reason being is that very few beings have been able to let go of the old teachings that tell you to help others first and then maybe yourselves. These old teachings do not allow you the giver the time or energy to care for yourselves.  Many of you at this time are starved for Self-care.   Once again, I am going to say to you stop and take the time today to care for yourselves in someway.  Know that it does not have to be in a huge dramatic way taking hours and hours.  Starting with just one small thing that would make you feel good about yourselves and the world would be wonderful.  

I am asking you to daily start doing small things to care for yourselves.  Once you are practicing this daily you will find yourselves reaching to do more and more to care for yourselves.  Reaping the rewards of Self-care will amaze you filling your heart and mind with abundant new energy and love.  Those beings who are in your daily lives will be so grateful and rewarded by all that you have done for yourselves.  You will find that you are becoming like a new being.  Your love, warmth and caring will go out to others in a way you have never experienced before.  When you live in a world of Self-care where you are feeling loved and totally supported by yourself, you will be living in the world in a totally new way.  Your inner light will shine brighter and truer than it ever has before.  

As always, you are never alone on your journey.  We are here by the hundreds of thousands standing beside you offering our love and support to you as you find your way into the world of Self-care.  Each of you are loved and cherished beyond what you can imagine.  I am loving each and everyone and holding you in my heart so tenderly.  

Know you only need call my name and I will be there. 
In Love, Mother Mary

If you are interested in purchasing a copy of Mother Mary's

book please go to the website at 

www.thelivinglettersofmothermary.com 

Letter 256

CONVERSATIONS WITH MOTHER MARY

Mother Mary is inviting you to come and have a personal conversation with her.  Barbara and Mother Mary will trade places during your reading so that you will be able to talk directly to Mother Mary.  Barbara will simply move into a special chamber that Mother Mary has prepared for her during this time and then Mother Mary will move into Barbara’s body to have that personal one on one conversation with you.  These conversations can be long distance over the phone or in person.  The fee is $55.00 and there is a discount available for first time clients.  Please contact Barbara for an appointment at beachhouse11111@gmail.com  or 503-717- 4302.
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LETTERS FROM MOTHER MARY

Letter 256

Dear Ones, 

Today let us talk about self-care and self-love.  Self-care is the outward action or behavior of self-love.  It is only normal and natural that if a being is practicing self-love, then they will take the utmost of care with themselves. 

So, this is a good reality checkpoint for each of you.  How are you doing on yourself-care?   Are you making sure to care for yourself first and then to reach out to others or are you caring for everyone else first and if there is time you come back to yourselves?  You each one know that it does not work to care for others first and then maybe have time for yourselves.   This is an old habit that you learned from watching the elders in your families.  It did not work for them, and it will not work for you. 

Now is the time to change those old generational habits of always putting the other being or beings first.  The out come of these habits is harmful and immensely abusive to one's self.  Are you finding that you are overwhelmed, tired, upset, cranky and living in the victim mode?  If any of these words fit for you, then you can be assured that perhaps you are not paying attention to yourself as you need.  Indeed, it is not the other persons blame or fault that you are choosing to put them first.  The fault or blame lies with one person and that person is you. 

Only you can be the one to change these old generational habits.  You are the one who must take those first steps to care for yourself and then move out to care for others.  The ones you have been caring for first may not understand your actions and will become uncomfortable with what is taking place.  Part of the changing of these old patterns will be speaking with others about the changes that you are working on making in your life.  In the speaking with others, it will help you to have more clarity about exactly what you will need to do.

It is most important to remember that these are old generational habits that have been with you for a lifetime.  Do not expect yourself to change these all at once, give yourselves time to adjust and also the other beings in your world time to adjust to what you are doing and changing.  Start gently and easily by picking one thing to do in a different way this day.  ABOVE ALL AND MOST IMPORTANT TO REMEMBER THAT WE ARE STANDING RIGHT HERE WAITING TO HELP YOU.  YOU ONLY NEED ASK; WE WILL COME AND WALK THROUGH THESE CHANGES WITH YOU.  YOU ARE NEVER ALONE AND DURING THOSE TIMES WHEN YOU FEEL SO ALONE, WE ARE STILL STANDING RIGHT THERE WITH YOU. 

We here in my world will be overjoyed and thrilled that you are taking care of yourselves first and then reaching out to others.  You will find when you live your life in this manner that you're reaching out becomes filled with joy, love and support for the other beings.  By making these changes within yourselves; you will entirely change the energy and perceptions that you're holding within yourself about your world and the beings in it.  Others around you will notice the difference of the love and caring that you share with them.  That love and caring will be coming from your heart rather than you mind and brain. 

WE here are honored to share with you this day.  WE are sending you great enormous amounts of love and caring.  You each are so cherished and held so dearly in my heart.  I am loving you each and everyone.

Know you only need call my name and I will be there.

In Love, Mother Mary

If you are interested in purchasing a copy of Mother Mary's

book please go to the website at 

www.thelivinglettersofmothermary.com